Facing and embracing the real scares in life

Halloween is upon us, a season fof spooky costumes, eerie decorations, and all things that go bump in the night. But let’s be honest, what really is scary? Is it the costumes and haunted houses? Or is it the things we face in our everyday lives—the situations that push us out of our comfort zones, where we feel like we’re stepping into the unknown?

For me, the real scares come from life’s big changes and the challenges they bring. Turning 50, my daughter leaving for uni, and more recently, watching my other daughter Jasmine embark on her apprenticeship journey was one of those moments. As a parent, there’s always that mix of excitement and apprehension when your child steps into a new chapter. Will they be okay? Will they thrive? The unknowns can feel overwhelming, but it’s also incredibly rewarding to see them grow.

Jasmine recently started her apprenticeship in marketing, and let me tell you, it was as daunting for her as it was for me. But she’s taken to it like a pro. Her boss recently shared a post celebrating her journey so far, and I couldn’t help but feel so proud. She mentioned that Jasmine brings fresh energy and creativity, and from day one, she’s shown a thoughtful and driven approach to everything.

That’s Jasmine—curious, resilient, and unafraid to jump into the deep end. And isn’t that what stepping outside of your comfort zone is all about?

I think back to the times I’ve faced similar situations, where I wasn’t sure what the outcome would be or if I’d even be able to handle it. For business owners, those moments can come frequently—whether it’s trying out new strategies, dealing with economic changes, or simply handling the day-to-day pressures. It can be downright intimidating, but pushing through these “scares” is often where the magic happens. It’s how we reclaim our power and grow into something bigger.

If there’s a takeaway this Halloween, it’s that fear often leads to growth. It may feel unnerving to take on new challenges, but just like Jasmine, we can find our own way through, discover new strengths, and maybe even enjoy the ride along the way. Change is rarely comfortable, but it’s always an opportunity to reinvent ourselves, to explore, and to see just what we’re capable of.

So, as you face whatever “scary” things are coming your way—whether in business or in life—remember that each challenge is an opportunity to step outside of what you know and build confidence in something new. If you need someone to talk it through with, or if your business challenges feel more like Halloween scares, reach out. We’re here to help you face the unknown and find the rewards waiting on the other side.

Let’s embrace the real “scares” this season and make them stepping stones to something amazing.